Just an update.. or a Life story ha ha

I am not so good at blogging... I'm more of a FaceBooker .. I'm on FB daily. Ill try and get better at this blogging thing...

So I noticed that I have not updated since I first found out I was pregnant. Well, I'm still pregnant and we found out on March 1 that this baby is a GIRL we are very excited. I'm more excited to know that I finally get the girl Ive always wanted and that I feel my family is complete and this will be my last pregnancy. Ive decided that pregnancy after a loss is not the same as before cause all you do is W O R R Y! I am finally to the point where I do not worry so much about MaKaylie  as she is pretty active now and moves around plenty for me. If she isn't very active, I do have a fetal heart Doppler that I can use anytime i start to worry and if i cant find her heartbeat, i can surely hear her moving around.   The bleeding I had surrounding the uterus had resolved by the time i was 20 weeks so i was pretty happy about that.

We decided we would name her MaKaylie Nicole and she will be here in about 11 weeks. I am due July 22 but I get to choose her delivery date, up to a week early via C Section, so I'm holding out for July 15.

My little sister Amanda is due 1 week before me and she is having a boy and naming him Braeden Scott Frantz. I also have a couple good/close friends that are pregnant and one of them is due 1 week after me. Her name is also Amanda and she is having a girl too.. I figured on Facebook that I have almost 15 friends that are pregnant and due this year alone. So its a busy year for babies.

We also decided that since we live in a 3 bdrm house and the 2 younger boys are sharing a room that we would ask Austin if he would like to share a room with his brothers or share a room with the baby for the time being and he jumping for joy said he wanted to share his room with his baby sister (until she was old enough to where they can no longer be in the same room as they are opposite gender). Anyone know what age this is? 

Tentatively, my sister Jeanie and whoever is helping her will be planning a double shower for both me and my little sister Amanda. The date is June 26th. I do not know a time or a location yet. I think it will be lots of fun though.  Since it is Amanda's first baby we let her choose whether she wanted a dbl or not and at first she didn't then she changed her mind and i asked and asked are you sure cause if you want your own its OK i completely understand wanting your own. She continues to say she really wants one with me so that makes me happy.


Besides all the pregnancy stuff I realize i need to comment on my 3 boys and my husband so ..
Austin is almost 8 and is in 2nd grade and hopefully doing well (we've never received a report card for him.. maybe i should call the school on this..). He is a good kid and helps with his brothers and even helps his dad with unloading the dishwasher. Don't get me wrong, he does have his moments when his drama king attitude comes out but for the most part hes really good.

Mathew will be 6 the day after Mother's Day and I cant believe my tiny little baby is getting so big now.. he is in Kindergarten and has come a long way since the first day of school.. We were a little worried about his reading at his first parent teacher conference but by his second p t c the teacher was very impressed with his improvement and so are we.  I like to call Mathew the "little mother" cause when I'm super tired and having to nap, he goes into Mother mode and takes care of himself and his little brother Jaxon. Mathew is also a really good kid and he too has his moments.

Jaxon turned 4 in March and he has been potty trained for some time now and rarely has an accident. He is moms little buddy when the other 2 are in school and he either comes and lays on the bed with me or plays on the bed with my hand, he likes to jump on it and  idk why but he does. He minds pretty good. He is a really funny kid too. He can count to 11 and knows all his colors so that'll help when he starts Kindergarten in 2011.

Eric is teaching elementary school, 5th grade. This is his first year as a full time paid teacher but 2 yr as a 5th grade teacher. Last year he was the teacher but only received half pay because he was an intern. Him being full time paid teacher has helped us a lot. We were able to move and our rent increased by a little over $600 we also bought a brand new van .. A 2010 VW Routan. We like it a lot and it has bumper to bumper and free scheduled maintenance until we get to 36,000 miles which is coming faster than we want it to.. we bought it in August with 78 miles and it now has 16,000 on it. Eric is also the JV softball coach for Timpanogos High School and he enjoys coaching and our boys enjoy going to the games with dad since mom has to work. Eric is supposed to be done with college in June.

I am still working at the same place Ive been for almost 7 years now. I work afternoon/evenings.. so I'm at work anywhere from 2 pm and not scheduled off until 11:30 pm M-F.  it will be nice to take 12 weeks off when the baby is born. Now if only i could stay home for good.. unfortunately that is not an option with the rent and the van.

Hmm, I am not sure what more to write about so I guess that means I'm done writing... I also wonder if any one even reads my blogs.. Cause if no one does .. well then, why am I wasting the time writing it? So if you read this, leave me a comment so I know I'm not wasting my time Thanks a bunch.

The Schultz Clan... :)

New baby..

I went in for my first ultrasound yesterday and baby has a heartbeat and was measuring 6w 6d and everything seemed fine by the doc til i got back in the exam room where he decided to be 'up front and honest...' he proceeded to tell me that i have a large amount of blood surrounding the baby which makes it high risk for me to lose the baby. Eric and I have searched and searched since doc wasn't too informative... he didn't tell me what its called, how its caused or how much blood...

So in searching we have found that it may be 'Subchorionic Bleed Hemorrhage or Hematoma?' Which could fix itself or stay the entire pregnancy or worse case end in miscarriage. We are really hoping to continue and have a full term, healthy baby. I surely do not want to experience what I experienced earlier this year with Caden Aleksander my angel baby.

In addition to all this, I strongly felt that my little sis Amanda was pregnant and I was right she is due about a week before me and I have about 4-5 friends that are also pregnant and due the same time.. well between June, July and August. Sooo cool. I have always been pregnant with my sister Jeanie and a few cousins.. well now Jeanie and these cousins are no longer in the baby making phase lol.

Anyways, if it isn't too much to ask, if you pray we would love your thoughts and prayers that we will have a full term, healthy baby without the high risks.

Thanks a bunch <3 ya all!! :)

Baby time... :)

Well, after trying since we lost Caden back in June, we finally got pregnant again. We found out yesterday (November 14, 2009). Baby is due around July 22, 2010.

Were really hoping for a Girl this time along with full term and 100% healthy.

YAY!!!

Caden from the beginning..

 

We went to Wendover with a group of my friends and found out the next month we were expecting. When we came home from Wendover, it was the week of Valentines and Eric and I went to Zales and I found this beautiful heart necklace that I just fell in love with, he ended up buying it for me and little did we know it would have soo much meaning in the end. Here is a picture of the necklace:

 

1/10 CT. T.W. Diamond Double Heart Pendant in 10K White Gold

 My boys say the little heart inside is Caden. I wear this necklace every day and its now called "My Caden Necklace"

I continued to have monthly checkups with my OB and everything was going fine. I had pretty bad nausea and very sleepy. I noticed that this pregnancy, I kept catching myself thinking about miscarriage where I never had with Austin Mathew or Jaxon's pregnancy. I felt Caden move the last week he was alive I will always cherish those few movements I felt before he passed.

I realized I never elaborated on this after this post. ill explain what happen from start to finish.. pay no attention to the grammar, punctuation, etc.. this was all written out on my cell phone and i fwd it to my email so that i wouldn't have to write it out ever again..

I was 17 weeks and went in for my normal monthly checkup and doc couldn't find the heartbeat so he took me to another room to do an ultrasound.. I laid on the table and he scanned across my belly and as he scanned across, I saw my baby just lying there with no heartbeat he then did some measurements and found out baby stopped growing at 14 weeks so the baby died 3 weeks before we found out. Doc then took me back to the exam room and explained to me what options I have He told me because I was in my 2nd trimester, if I chose a D&C he couldn't promise he would get all the pieces of the baby. I chose to have a medically induced labor because I couldn't bring myself to do a D & C after what he said. So this was Monday June 15, 2009, 2 days later I decided to start taking the pill that starts the labor (Cytotec) I started the pill around noon and at about 7 pm that night the contractions started and never eased up. I toughed it out for a few hours while my hubby was coaching softball and then we went to the hospital around 10 pm we got checked in, Eric went home to get some things, Jeanie and Mom came to be with me, and just before Jeanie walked in, I accidentally dropped my cell phone in the toilet as it was flushing as if my week wasn't bad enough .. (Anyone that knows me, knows I'm addicted to my phone). Anyway, as soon as everyone was there my water broke and my friend Martha McCoy also came for a couple hours. The nurse kept checking me and checking to see where the baby was and at about 3:30am she told me I was dilated to about a 3 and ready to deliver the baby.. We all kinda lost it and so they gave us some time. We all gained our composure and I pushed like 3 times and there was Caden at 340 am on June 18, 2009.. Everything was formed on the baby you could see the tongue, the nose, the ears, toes, fingers, collarbone, everything. It was soo sad. There was a huge sack of liquid on his head which is what he died from its called Hydrocephalus. Caden was 1.6 oz and was 5" long we got to hold him (not skin to skin) the skin is soo fragile at that stage that you cannot touch it with your bare hands or it will break and tear and ooze so the Bereavement specialist wrapped him up in what I call his boxing robe cause that's what it looks like. She got molds of his hands and feet and took pictures of him and of Eric and I with him. We held him for a few hours and a few visitors came to the hospital like Grandma and Grandpa Schramm and Amanda and both my dads were there. At about 10 am my father Ken left to go get the burial plot and the casket and my mom left to go get the burial transport authorization (because baby was under 20 weeks the funeral homes do nothing. Its all up to u to handle and arrange).. So we took Caden and put him in a cooler on ice to keep him from drying up and then just 9 hours after delivering, I was released from the hospital and started planning the burial for the next day. So on June 19, 2009 I got up and went to my mothers where Caden was along with my mom and my father Ken and my Dad James and other family members I prepared Caden to put him in the casket and held him a bit more and then I placed him in the casket and arranged him in the blanket and pillow and we put a family picture and a picture of the boys in the casket with him along with the very first baby blanket I ever bought even before I had Austin . Caden was soo tiny his entire body fit on the casket pillow so we pinned the blankets to the pillow so he couldn't slide off and etc I then let those that were there say their last goodbyes and I closed the casket and my mom put ribbons on the casket to represent his family members and him we then picked up a few dozen balloons and headed to the cemetery. It was a beautiful day, a beautiful burial and then we went to Mi Rancherito for lunch and it was a good day but a sad day. Eric and I have been trying to get pregnant since we lost Caden and we found out we were pregnant just 3 days before the day I chose to deliver Caden had he been full term Nov 17, 2009. Anyway, that's the story.. Yes its long I do have pix of Caden if u want to see them they are not on FB because it is of his body and some people would object so if u want to see the pix, send me your email and ill send them to you.

I have never blogged before so for those of you reading my blog, please bare with me lol